The strained relationship between Benji and his father is not a blatantly obvious focus in the chapter "To Prevent Flare-Ups," but it is repeatedly hinted at by seemingly normal interactions which still put us readers off a bit. The sound of the liquor cabinet magnet is one example; it's a normal sound but through Benji's uneasy reaction to it we can pick up hints about his dad's alcoholism. An interesting argument brought up about their relationship is whether it is an abusive father-son relation or rather just tough love. In particular I'm thinking of the scene in which Benji's father tells him to hit the kid that was making racial comments, and upon learning that Benji hadn't done so, he hit Benji instead. I guess this action could be interpreted as Benji's father teaching Benji that no one is on his side in the world so he must take action to defend himself against racism; it's just his father being tough on him because he cares and wan
"wHy dOnT yOu JuST cUT hIm?" A simple solution proposed by 'Norman Bates' to Jason in response to his bully troubles. Ah, of course! Why wouldn't Jason think of that; just commit a felony and permanently handicap his tormentor. It's easy as that. In all seriousness though, I was definitely shocked and kind of amused by the extremity of the bus driver's solution, and I'm glad that Jason decided against it. A vital part of Jason's growth throughout the novel is him gradually learning to deal with his tormentors by accepting himself and learning to not care about the opinions of those he doesn't care about--as Holly Deblin says, "Don't let dickheads define who you are." This is also the Dean Morin approach: just ignore the dickheads and live how you want to live. I think Jason makes the better decision for himself here by choosing the arguably more difficult process of self-acceptance and growth as a person rather than taking the